i have been dealing with perfectionism/perfectionist tendencies since … oh, well BIRTH. And this space right here — my blog — is DEFINITELY one of the biggest spaces that perfectionism rears its insane standards head. i’ve left my blog empty for months and months (hell, YEARS) because i couldn’t get whatever it was that wanted to be… Read more →
How to be a drag queen: 12 pieces of advice for future faux queens (aka bio queens, female drag queens) to get you started in drag!
I want to be a drag queen. Do you have advice for getting started? It’s THE number question i get asked in my email, messenger, and Insta DM’s from women who want to be drag queens (often called female drag queens, faux queens, divas, lady queens, and bio queens) — and the #1 question i’ve set my career sites… Read more →
i’ve always been the kind of person who has to retreat into themselves, into their art for periods of time. This week has been one of those (although i feel like the entire month of August has been that way). Reclusive. Reevaluating. Realigning. Redefining. Something that you may not know about me is that i LOVE astrology… Read more →
i stumbled upon Melissa Cassera when i won Miss USofA Diva in 2014 and was Googling a PR person to help with publicity. Melissa’s name and then-company and website Cassera Communications popped up on the first search page. i clicked on it, started binge reading her posts, and instantly became O.B.S.E.S.S.E.D. with her. She just seemed like a really… Read more →