Telling perfectionism to fuck off.

  i have been dealing with perfectionism/perfectionist tendencies since … oh, well BIRTH.   And this space right here — my blog — is DEFINITELY one of the biggest spaces that perfectionism rears its insane standards head.   i’ve left my blog empty for months and months (hell, YEARS) because i couldn’t get whatever it was that wanted to be… Read more →

Melissa Cassera Biz and Creative Mentor – 6 reasons why i’m forever obsessed student

i stumbled upon Melissa Cassera when i won Miss USofA Diva in 2014 and was Googling a PR person to help with publicity. Melissa’s name and then-company and website Cassera Communications popped up on the first search page. i clicked on it, started binge reading her posts, and instantly became O.B.S.E.S.S.E.D. with her.   She just seemed like a really… Read more →

The biggest lesson on creativity, life, and art i’ve learned from Frida Kahlo.

As a drag artist, i’ve always felt a little different and odd because while i adore the glitz and glam of drag –the big hair, statement makeup, and over-the-top outfits, i’d rather pour myself and energy into creating statement pieces that evoke deep feelings in the audience rather than create shock value.   That’s because i drag like i live… Read more →

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