i want to show you my brave: valuing your becoming over your arrival.

i feel this absence from my blog and online writing space more this time than any others because, ironically, i’ve been doing a lot more writing — on my book, for others, online — just not for my people here or my newsletter. That’s because i see these spaces as scared. Unlike the spaces i write for online and in print,… Read more →

Happy World Book Day + Sneak Peak At My New Memoir!!

  Twenty-three years ago, i saw my first drag queen. i knew right then and there that i was going to be one — despite all the people telling me i couldn’t. And i did. i became the first.   Recently, i’ve been dealing with the aftershocks of some major shifts in my life. i’ve found myself saying “no” more… Read more →

Advice on Sundays (and Mondays) for freelance writers and aspiring memoirists.

Today is Sunday.   Today i had planned in my bullet journal that i was going to ‘me’ write (work on whatever personal book/project i’m currently pursuing) for 3 hours (i like to ‘me’ write first thing in the morning) and then spend the rest of the day (about 6 hours) on my freelance writing gigs — i.e. the writing that… Read more →

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